参考一下下面这段代码就可以了。
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Imports System.Data
'引入数据库操作类命名空间
Imports System.Data.OleDb
'引入ADO.NET操作命名空间
Public Class FrmModifystInfo
Inherits System.Windows.Forms.Form
Public ADOcmd As OleDbDataAdapter
Public ds As DataSet = New DataSet()
'建立DataSet对象
Public mytable As Data.DataTable
'建立表单对象
Public myrow As Data.DataRow
'建立数据行对象
Public rownumber As Integer
'定义一个整型变量来存放当前行数
Public SearchSQL As String
Public cmd As OleDbCommandBuilder
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#Region " Windows 窗体设计器生成的代码 "
#End Region
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Private Sub FrmModifystInfo_Load(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles MyBase.Load
'窗体的载入
TxtSID.Enabled = False
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False '设置信息为只读
Dim tablename As String = "student_Info "
SearchSQL = "select * from student_Info "
ExecuteSQL(SearchSQL, tablename) '打开数据库
ShowData() '显示记录
End Sub
Private Sub ShowData()
'在窗口中的textbox中显示数据
myrow = mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber)
TxtSID.Text = myrow.Item(0).ToString
TxtName.Text = myrow.Item(1).ToString
ComboSex.Text = myrow.Item(2).ToString
TxtBornDate.Text = Format(myrow.Item(3), "yyyy-MM-dd ")
TxtClassno.Text = myrow.Item(4).ToString
TxtTel.Text = myrow.Item(5).ToString
TxtRuDate.Text = Format(CDate(myrow.Item(6)), "yyyy-MM-dd ")
TxtAddress.Text = myrow.Item(7).ToString
TxtComment.Text = myrow.Item(8).ToString
End Sub
Private Sub BtFirst_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtFirst.Click
'指向第一条数据
rownumber = 0
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtPrev_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtPrev.Click
'指向上一条数据
BtNext.Enabled = True
rownumber = rownumber - 1
If rownumber 0 Then
rownumber = 0 '如果到达记录的首部，行号设为零
BtPrev.Enabled = False
End If
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtNext_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtNext.Click
'指向上一条数据
BtPrev.Enabled = True
rownumber = rownumber + 1
If rownumber mytable.Rows.Count - 1 Then
rownumber = mytable.Rows.Count - 1 '判断是否到达最后一条数据
BtNext.Enabled = False
End If
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtLast_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtLast.Click
'指向最后一条数据
rownumber = mytable.Rows.Count - 1
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtDelete_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtDelete.Click
mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber).Delete() '删除记录
If MsgBox( "确定要删除改记录吗？ ", MsgBoxStyle.OKCancel + vbExclamation, "警告 ") = MsgBoxResult.OK Then
cmd = New OleDbCommandBuilder(ADOcmd)
'使用自动生成的SQL语句
ADOcmd.Update(ds, "student_Info ")
BtNext.PerformClick()
End If
End Sub
Private Sub BtModify_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtModify.Click
TxtSID.Enabled = False '关键字段只读
TxtName.Enabled = True '可读写
ComboSex.Enabled = True
TxtBornDate.Enabled = True
TxtClassno.Enabled = True
TxtRuDate.Enabled = True
TxtTel.Enabled = True
TxtAddress.Enabled = True
TxtComment.Enabled = True
End Sub
Private Sub BtUpdate_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtUpdate.Click
If Not Testtxt(TxtName.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入姓名！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtName.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(ComboSex.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请选择性别！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
ComboSex.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtClassno.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请选择班号！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtClassno.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtTel.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入联系电话！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtTel.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtAddress.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入家庭住址！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtAddress.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not IsNumeric(Trim(TxtSID.Text)) Then
MsgBox( "请输入数字学号！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
Exit Sub
TxtSID.Focus()
End If
If Not IsDate(TxtBornDate.Text) Then
MsgBox( "出生时间应输入日期格式（yyyy-mm-dd）！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
Exit Sub
TxtBornDate.Focus()
End If
If Not IsDate(TxtRuDate.Text) Then
MsgBox( "入校时间应输入日期格式（yyyy-mm-dd）！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtRuDate.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
myrow.Item(0) = Trim(TxtSID.Text)
myrow.Item(1) = Trim(TxtName.Text)
myrow.Item(2) = Trim(ComboSex.Text)
myrow.Item(3) = Trim(TxtBornDate.Text)
myrow.Item(4) = Trim(TxtClassno.Text)
myrow.Item(5) = Trim(TxtTel.Text)
myrow.Item(6) = Trim(TxtRuDate.Text)
myrow.Item(7) = Trim(TxtAddress.Text)
myrow.Item(8) = Trim(TxtComment.Text)
mytable.GetChanges()
cmd = New OleDbCommandBuilder(ADOcmd)
'使用自动生成的SQL语句
ADOcmd.Update(ds, "student_Info ")
'对数据库进行更新
MsgBox( "修改学籍信息成功！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False '重新设置信息为只读
End Sub
Private Sub BtCancel_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtCancel.Click
TxtSID.Enabled = False
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False
End Sub
Public Function ExecuteSQL(ByVal SQL As String, ByVal table As String)
Try
'建立ADODataSetCommand对象
'数据库查询函数
ADOcmd = New OleDbDataAdapter(SQL, "Provider=Microsoft.Jet.OLEDB.4.0;Data Source=c:\student.mdb ")
'建立ADODataSetCommand对象
ADOcmd.Fill(ds, table) '取得表单
mytable = ds.Tables.Item(0) '取得名为table的表
rownumber = 0 '设置为第一行
myrow = mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber)
'取得第一行数据
Catch
MsgBox(Err.Description)
End Try
End Function
End Class
把事件改为：DataGridView1.Click
i=DataGridView1.CurrentCell.RowIndex
需要注意如果当前没有被选中的行会报错，最好放在try模块内
求行：
RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(RichTextBox1.SelStart)+1
这个代码呢，我的理解呢，是获取在selstart的地方的行数。一般来讲selstart的地方都是光标的地方，然后会给你返回line。不过返回的时候要自己加1。不是很懂这个语法，有懂得可以教我一下
以上是求行数。
求列：
For i = 0 To RichTextBox1.SelStart
If RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(RichTextBox1.SelStart) - RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(RichTextBox1.SelStart - i) 0 Then Exit For
j = j + 1
Next i
这个for循环呢，讲的是检查这一行光标前有多少个列，然后用J输出列的个数。
因为VB6.0没有RichTextBox1.GetFirstCharIndexOfCurrentLine这种语法。所以就得自己模拟这个过程。
具体怎么检查的呢，首先将 i 从0循环到光标处，
如果 【光标字符数】处的行数 减去 【光标字符数减去 i 个字符数】处的行数小于0了，我写了个不为零。但此时写小于零就可以。那么代表着换行了，同时也代表着光标到上一行之间有多少字。用j存储循环次数，得出对应列数。（我们中文习惯是叫第一列，但程序实际上是第零列，但在循环的时候就注意到并解决这个问题了）
如果你替换写法，例如
If RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(RichTextBox1.SelStart) - RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(RichTextBox1.SelStart + i) 0 Then Exit For
j = j + 1
Next i
这个 J 就对应着光标到该行结尾有几个字符了，如果有需要可以使用，但一般不需要。
那么就像上面说的那样，行列都求出来了，最后用事件和TEXT或者caption表现出来就好了
至于说总行数
RichTextBox1.GetLineFromChar(Len(RichTextBox1.Text)) + 1
通过对最后一个字符的位置（总长度）的行来判断呗，不过也得加一。
通过向文本框传递EM_LINEFROMCHAR消息可以得到光标所在的行号：
contst
EM_LINEFROMCHAR
=
0xC9
Dim
I
as
Long
I
=
SendMessage(textBox1.Hwnd,
EM_LINEFROMCHAR,
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